3 major mental disorders for older girls
Inferiority complex: Typical women think that it is a disgraceful thing to be alone in the boudoir after the age of 30. Therefore, they are most afraid of people talking about marriage and marriage, and they are most afraid of asking about their marriage in a caring tone and disappointing themselvesI think that love will never come again, and I have no chance with love ever since.
They either close their hearts gradually and do not pursue, even if the true man arrives, they will be “closed up”; otherwise, they will go to the other extreme and submit to the pressure and influence of society, parents, and friends.Stream approach, hastily find an object to make things happen.
Closed Psychology: Typical women are inherently uncommunicative, unwilling to take a proactive approach to marriage issues, and even unwilling to associate with married colleagues and confine themselves in a small world, prefer to be alone, and have a very narrow communication range.
This kind of psychology actually greatly reduces their possibility of choosing a mate.
Their mentality of waiting for those who want to be hooked will only make them extraordinarily “sophisticated,” and it will also make a considerable portion of their men and women discourage them.
What’s more, marriage is a two-way choice. If you don’t move your soldiers and turn two-way into one-way, wouldn’t it be a half chance?
Rebellious Psychology: Some older women have previously lost too many opportunities due to their high requirements for mate selection. They should learn lessons and become more realistic.
However, they have raised the bar to a higher standard, thinking that “I can’t make a joke” until now. This mentality makes them “select carefully” and must meet the ideal requirements.
They idealized their love and lacked a sense of reality. They always wanted their love to be as romantic as the novel described: Prince Bai Ma suddenly fell from the sky; love at first sight, and the flower of love suddenly shined miraculously.
It should be noted that marriage is to live a real life and choose a mate down to earth, so why waste youth in your dreams?